My blog has been rather light on content of late as my steam-powered laptop takes far too much time to fire up and I can obsessively check my Twitter and Facebook from my iPhone. But, until tonight, I had not blogged from it.
However, as the ad would have it 'there is an app for that' and so I can tell the world how my world has changed.
Firstly, I met my ex's girlfriend. Maybe a year ago I would have been hurt that he left me for her, cos she's short and quite old. But since I am now 4 clothes sizes smaller, in a good job and loved up I kept my feelings under control and warmly shook her hand. Thinking all the while 'nice anorak'. Malicious but delicious.
Secondly, I now own my house 100% and am an independent woman. I like the fact that I am beholden to nobody and I have an asset to myself. I am getting divorced in February and I await the opportunity to be truly independent with anticipation. And I am planning a big divorce party to celebrate that phase of my life starting.
Finally, I have become aware that a couple of my friends are separating from their husbands. And, whilst I understand the pain and the heartache, I can promise that the grass is greener on the other side.
I am unrecognisable as the person who first started this blog. And it's a wonderful feeling.
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Quick update!
7 years ago
2 comments:
OK - tell me how I do the dress sizes bit. Is it all down to Paul McKenna?
Divorce is the right thing for some. There are as many happily married and happily divorced people as there are unhappily married and unhappily divorced people.
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